Steve’s story

I lost my confidence when prostate trouble caused my urine loss. It wasn’t an easy time, but my GP pointed me in the right direction.

My name is Steve. I’m 52 and consider myself pretty fit and healthy. About a year ago, I was diagnosed with prostate hyperplasia, a pretty common men’s disease that’s easily treated. My GP said it was ‘routine surgery,’ so I didn’t even worry that much.

After the operation, everything was fine for a bit. Then one day I was driving home from work and felt something hot and wet in my lap. I panicked and worried that maybe I was ill again.

I thought about telling my wife, Jill, but decided this was something I had to deal with on my own. Not a good idea. I soon became a different person around my family and colleagues - always disappearing or hiding because I was ashamed.
Until one day Jill told me she knew what was happening. She reassured me about it and suggested I go back to my GP. She was obviously right. It was like a great weight had been lifted.

‘You’re not alone,’ my doctor said. Turns out it’s quite common after prostate surgery. He told me incontinence pads could help, but I kept thinking: ‘I’m going to have to wear a diaper!’

The thing is, the good pads are invisible and safe. Yes, they felt a bit strange at first, but once you’ve found the right one, you soon forget you’re wearing them. Best of all, I never had to worry about smells or leakage.

They are flexible, leak-proof and fresh - odor control’s a must – and the feeling of security and control is great. No more skulking around, feeling shame and living a lie. I feel so much more relaxed about everything, and although of course I wish I didn’t leak, I’m happy just getting on with life.